Getting Personal

Our Lord Jesus Christ calls each one of us to an intimate, personal relationship with Him. Unfortunately, some Catholics are uncomfortable with this “personal relationship” terminology.

Yet Christianity is not a mere moral code, ethnic club, or cultural phenomenon. Rather, at its very core is the acceptance of Jesus Christ, the Son of God, as our personal Lord and Savior.

As we take positive steps to nurture this personal relationship, we must continually return to this fundamental point: It is God who initiates the relationship. God has first loved us, and our vocation is to respond to that love. And God does not merely initiate the relationship; He goes looking for us! That’s what the Incarnation–the Word becoming flesh–is all about.

This awesome truth helps us to see the Eucharist in a new light. Before we enter God’s world as His beloved children, He first enters ours. Since the pre-eminent way that God remains in our world is through the Holy Eucharist, then the Eucharist must give us important clues as to why Christ assumed human nature in the first place (see Catechism, nos. 456-60). The Eucharist points not so much to God’s “inaccessible transcendence” so much as it does to His “divine condescension.” The Eucharist is about God coming to us.

Our Heavenly Father has willed our existence from all eternity, has called each one of us by name, and has prepared a place for each one of us in heaven. While we remain free to accept or reject His gifts, He earnestly desires our salvation.

Now, what human father would give his son a stone when he asks for a loaf of bread (cf. Mt 7:9)? In other words, even flawed human fathers generally strive to do right by their children. How much more has our Heavenly Father taken into account our needs and desires in His plan of salvation for us. His will for us is truly “for our own good” or, as we profess more formally in the Creed, “for us men and for our salvation.”

We can see this principle at work in our Lord’s response to criticisms of His disciples who were picking heads of grain on the Sabbath. He says, “The sabbath was made for man, not man for the sabbath” (Mt 2:27). In keeping the Lord’s Day, we are not submitting to oppressive, arbitrary rules. Rather, the Lord’s Day is for our own good. Our participating in Sunday Mass and observing a day of rest corresponds with the basic human need to worship God outwardly, publicly, and regularly (see Catechism, no. 2176). It also addresses the need to put our all-consuming human endeavors in their proper context.

Similarly, Our Lord has taken the initiative with respect to the Eucharist. He gives it to us as the memorial of His suffering and death, commanding us to “do this” in His memory. He further advises us that if we don’t “do this,” then we have no life in us (see Jn. 6:53).

Our Lord assuredly does not place unnecessary stumbling blocks on the road to His Father’s house. Rather, as a God who seeks us out, who is intimately involved with the human family and who knows what’s best for us, He gives us His own Body and Blood to help us experience the salvation He won for us and to strengthen us in our Christian pilgrimage.

It is incumbent upon us, then, to thank the Lord for this sublime gift and to beg Him to increase our faith and devotion. Then we can in some way relive the “Eucharistic amazement” of the disciples who, on the road to Emmaus, recognized Jesus in the breaking of the bread. After all, our God is truly with us.

More to the point, He is with you, and He is with me.

For more on this subject, see Hahn and Flaherty, eds., Catholic for a Reason III: Scripture and the Mystery of the Mass, available through Emmaus Road Publishing. CUF members receive special discounts on all purchases.

2 responses

  1. Leon,

    I agree our Lord is calling each of us to a personal relationship with Him. I think He calls for even more than that, He wants a covenantal relationship with each of us. That is why when you enter my home or each of the bedrooms in my house there is a crucifix. It helps to remind me of the covenantal relationship he made with us at the Last Supper and dying on the Cross. The crucifix also helps to remind me of the kind of Love I am to show my wife. As this becomes the great example in the lives of my children to follow.

    God Bless,

    Greg Sanchez

  2. Leon,

    I was once told by a good priest of the Madison Diocese that our Lord is not merely looking for a relationship, He desires union! He wants us to become like Him. And in the Eucharist we are given that opportunity; “to become what we eat.” This is one of the reasons that I strive to go to daily Mass and prayer before our Lord in the Eucharist every day. Thanks for the post!

    NKS

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